The writings of the early Christians are significant to help us to
understand what God says in the Bible about divorce and remarriage for
several reasons: These men lived very shortly after the writing of the
New Testament. The apostles had only passed away a short while before
their time. They were not separated from the writing of the New
Testament by almost two thousand years like we are. They also
understood the cultural setting in which the New Testament was
written. What the early Christians wrote is also significant because
the society in which they lived was so similar to ours today --
divorce and remarriage was very common. Many of these writings were
widely circulated among the churches which adds to the credibility of
what they say. The early Christians knew Greek. The New Testament
Greek was not a foreign language to them as it is for us or even a
"dead" language as it is today. These men were fluent in Greek. For
many it was their native tongue.
What is significant is that in all of the writings of the early
Christians, I did not find any teaching that the early Church believed
that Jesus' words in Matthew 19:9, " Whosoever shall put away his
wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another,
committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth
commit adultery," permitted remarriage. I was not able to find
remarriage allowed in any of the writings of the early Christians They
all speak the same thing that remarriage after divorce is sin.
The early Christians spoke clearly on divorce and
remarriage. What they wrote is significant for our
understanding of God's judgment of divorce and remarriage.
Justin Martyr around A.D. 150 writes: "And 'Whosoever shall marry
her that is divorced from another husband, committeth adultery.' and,
'There are some who have been made eunuchs of men, and some who were
born eunuchs, and some who have made themselves eunuchs for the
kingdom of heaven's sake; but all cannot receive this saying.' So that
all who, by human law, are twice married, are in the eye of our Master
sinners, and those who look upon a woman to lust after her." 2
Athenagoras the Athenian in A.D. 177 wrote A plea for the
Christians. In it he writes: "For we bestow our attention, not on the
study of words, but on the exhibition and teaching of action, - that a
person should either remain as he was born, or be content with one
marriage; for a second marriage is only a specious adultery. 'For
whosoever puts away his wife,' says He, 'and marries another, commits
adultery'; not permitting a man to send her away whose virginity he
has brought to an end, nor to marry again." 3
Clement of Alexandria writing around A.D. 194 on the exception
clause states that the only exception for divorce is for remarried
couples to end their sinful marriage: "Now that the Scripture counsels
marriage, and allows no release from the union, is expressly contained
in the law, 'Thou shalt not put away thy wife, except for the cause of
fornication;' and it regards as fornication, the marriage of those
separated while the other is alive."4
Tertullian writing around A.D. 200 says: "I maintain, then, that
there was a condition in the prohibition which He now made of divorce;
the case supposed being, that a man put away his wife for the express
purpose of marrying another. His words are: 'Whosoever putteth away
his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery; and whosoever
marrieth her that is put away from her husband, also committeth
adultery,' - 'put away,' that is, for the reason wherefore a woman
ought not to be dismissed, that another wife may be obtained. For he
who marries a woman who isunlawfully pu t away is as much of an
adulterer as the man who marries one who is undivorced. Permanent is
the marriage which is not rightly dissolved; to marry, therefore,
whilst matrimony is undissolved, is to commit adultery."... "For in
the Gospel of Matthew he says, 'Whosoever shall put away his wife,
saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery.'
He also is deemed equally guilty of adultery, who marries a woman put
away by her husband. The creator, however, except on account of
adultery, does not put asunder what He Himself joined together, the
same Moses in another passage enacting that he who had married after
violence to a damsel, should thenceforth not have it in his power to
put away his wife. Now, if a compulsory marriage contracted after
violence to a damsel, shall be permanent, how much rather shall a
voluntary one, the result of agreement! This has the sanction of the
prophet: 'Thou shalt not forsake the wife of thy youth.'" 5
Tertullian also states, "The fact that [he] who shall have
dismissed his wife, except on the ground of adultery, makes her commit
adultery; and (he) who shall have married a [woman] dismissed by her
husband, of course commits adultery. A divorced woman cannot even
marry legitimately; and if she commit any such act without the name of
marriage does it not fall under the category of adultery, in that
adultery is a crime in the way of marriage? Such is God's verdict,
within straighter limits than men's, that universally, whether through
marriage or promiscuously, the admission of a second man (to
intercourse) is pronounced adultery by Him. For let us see what
marriage is in the eye of God; and thus we shall learn what adultery
equally is. Marriage is (this): when God joins "two into one flesh;"
or else, finding (them already) joined in the same flesh, has given
His seal to the conjunction. Adultery is (this): when the two having
been - in whatsoever way - disjoined, other - nay, rather alien -
flesh is mingled (with either): flesh concerning which it cannot be
affirmed, 'This is flesh out of my flesh, and this bone out of my
bones.'" A little later he states, "But they (the Romans) indulge in
promiscuous adulteries, even without divorcing (their partners): to
us, even if we do divorce them, even marriage will not be lawful" 6